Love in the Time of Cholera
In a half-century long love story, we’re introduced to Florentino Ariza and Fermina Daza, who fell passionately in love in their youth over their letters - but as both matured, Fermina decides to marry a wealthy doctor and they part ways. Yet Florentino is a hopeless romantic and for his whole life, he saves a spot for Fermina in his heart even as he spends much of his time in sexual affairs with countless other women. In Florentino, Márquez presents an unfiltered, if a little unconventional, idea of love that’s at once touching yet not so lofty as to be unrealistic. And in Fermina, who lives happily in her marriage, he shows that some stories cut short by the whims of fate never quite have a resolute and unchangeable end until the finality of death.
Florentino and Fermina’s grand love story during their youth struck me as unconventional because it happened over stolen glances and secret letters. There was no passionate flourish, not in real life that is - all the flourish were inside each other’s minds. In Pyramus-and-Thisbe fashion, the struggles of being together added to their passion, and their love is so strange yet so powerfully poetic because they couldn’t have each other. This was the reason that Fermina broke things off with Florentino when she realized she didn’t actually know the person Florentino is, but rather only knew her idea of him. Altogether the story is a rich elaboration of a line Tolstoy wrote: “if there are as many minds as there are heads, then there are as many kinds of love as there are hearts”.
% grep -i "love in the time of cholera" quotes.txt5 matches
on love
“Take advantage of it now, while you are young, and suffer [from lovesickness] all you can, because these things don’t last your whole life”
— Gabriel García Márquez, Love in the Time of Cholera
on love
“He was not the kind of man she would have chosen. His foundling’s eyeglasses, his clerical garb, his mysterious resources had awakened in her a curiosity that was difficult to resist, but she had never imagined that curiosity was one of the many masks of love”
— Gabriel García Márquez, Love in the Time of Cholera
on love
“One can be in love with several people at the same time, feel the same sorrow with each, and not betray any of them”
— Gabriel García Márquez, Love in the Time of Cholera
on love
”It is incredible how one can be happy for so many years in the midst of so many squabbles, so many problems, damn it, and not really know if it was love or not”
— (Fermina Daza), Gabriel García Márquez, Love in the Time of Cholera
on passion
”[The penis] is like a firstborn son: you spend your life working for him, sacrificing everything for him, and at the moment of truth he does just as he pleases”
— Gabriel García Márquez, Love in the Time of Cholera